Sexy Gift Time!!!

Shunga Erotic Art products are a favorite for us at Studio 21 Ltd.

The gift sets, the quality of the product, the various purposes, make recommending a product, to a wide range of customers, easy!

The number one seller for us would be the Garden of Edo,

This set goes from mild to wild!

The set has 5 fabulous items that we'll describe and pair up the products to have multiple purposes!

First up is Organica Massage Oil,

in Exotic Green Tea, this is edible, certified organic, and silky to the touch.

This non sticky massage oil is perfect for massages.

Helpful tip...warm up the bottle in a bowl of hot water to adjust the temperature just right!

Second is Intimate Kisses Aphrodisiac Oil

in Exotic Green Tea

the Aphrodisiac Oil is edible, certified organic, and a thicker consistency than the Massage Oil,

it's purpose is for erogenous zones, it gets warm by breathing on it, so think about that hot spot on your self or your partner that you would love to entice with just your breath.

Helpful tip...if putting the massage oil in a bowl of hot water takes to much prep time for you, add a few drops of the Aphrodisiac Oil to the Massage Oil for an instant warming effect. 

Third, in the set is Lotus Noir Sensitizing Gel For Lovers

 This Sensitizing Gel is for both females & males, it has a cooling effect, edible (strawberries & champagne flavor!), & is certified organic. For men when massaged with your fingertips onto the head of the penis during foreplay, it increases blood flow to the penis. For women,when massaged onto the clitoris is makes it more sensitive.

For an intensely pleasurable shared experience apply more if needed.

Fourth, in the set is Toko Organica

 this lubricant is made with pure vegetable glycerin and a natural corn by-product, both certified organic. It's delicate texture and endless sensual lubricity intensify sensations for prolonged moments of intimacy.

Helpful tip...you can pair up this lubricant with the Aphrodisiac Oil for a warming lubricant or pair it with the Lotus Noir for a cooling lubricant.

 Fifth, and last up in the multi-purpose set is the Oriental Crystals Lotus Flower

Exuding the aphrodisiac scent of lotus flowers and made with 100% natural minerals from the Dead Sea, this salt helps you relax before lovemaking in arousing salt water reminiscent of green lagoons. Let the bubbles caress your skin, making it soft and inviting for those intense moments of intimacy.

Helpful tips...

the included actual sea shell that is a scoop for the sea salts, it's ridged side also doubles as a pumice stone. While soaking this is a great time to pumice your heels and elbows making them super soft! A great pairing for this product is the massage oil the have an exfoliating massage for your back, hands, feet and or face! Smells exquisite! 



Sexy Food

While there's no real hard-core scientific proof that there are aphrodisiac foods, but there are many experts that say that there are some foods that tickle pleasure points in the brain and the body, thus enhancing a sexual experience.

Dark chocolate, for instance, increases serotonin, a brain chemical that makes you feel good, which in hand, may help you get in a ready-to-have-fun mood.



Oysters, another legendary libido-boosting food, contain alot of zinc.

Your body needs zinc to produce testosterone, which is linked to a healthy sex drive in men and women.

Spicy foods rev up your heart rate, making you feel hot and bothered.

A glass of wine or a cocktail can also be a mood enhancer by reducing inhibitions. Just don't go overboard with the amount that you drink. Too much alcohol can have the opposite effect and make it more difficult for you and your partner to reach orgasm.

When it comes to a sexy meal, it's not so much what you eat, but how you eat it.

Go to the market and pick oit foods that look, smell, and even taste sexy to you. Then spend the evening together savoring each pleasurable bite.

Feeding each other at the table or, better yet, in the bedroom can be very arousing!

Just stick with finger foods to avoid stressing out about the possible mess.

Above all don't rush: the slower and more sensual the experience,

the greater the erotic end result!

Signs Men Want To Have Sex

Besides the obvious...

here are some body language signs to look for to point out your man is ready to get down and dirty!

He gets an "eye erection."

His pupils dilate, making the black part of the eye go from small to larger, something that happens when arousal spikes.

He hooks his thumbs in his belt loops.

It's an attempt to highlight the crotchal region and get you thinking about his junk.

 

He touches his nose a lot.

Unless he has a cold, this could be a sign since the Journal of the Royal Medicine recently reported that the nerves in a guy's nose and his erectile tissue are linked.

 

He speaks more deeply than usual.

A 2010 study found that people lower the pitch of their voice when they're turned on.

 

He cups or rubs your shoulder.

This is often a subconscious simulation of grabbing some tata.

He goes in for a hug and rests his hands low on your back.

It may not feel sexual, but if he lingers just above your ass, he could be craving, well, ass.

He bites his lower lip and shakes his head.

Men who do this when they're talking to you may be feeling frisky.

A Sexless Marriage

Marriage is in trouble.

Oh, I don't mean because about 4 out of every 10 of us think it's becoming obsolete, although that certainly doesn't bode well for it. No, it's not because of what 'celebrity' is in the headlines this week for cheating -- too many of us aren't getting any action at home.

 

There are more than 17,000 people who identify with "I Live In a Sexless Marriage" on the Experience Project. But if recent surveys are correct, that doesn't even come close to the number of people who are living it but experiencing it privately.

The jobless rate may be around 9 percent, but the sexless marriage rate is perhaps a much more dire situation -- as many as 20 million married Americans aren't getting it on with any regularity.

Most unhappy are middle-aged men. Almost half say they aren't getting as much sex as they'd like, according to an AP/LifeGoesStrong.com poll. And while 61 percent of men aged 45 to 55 say a good sex life is a critical part of a healthy relationship, just 47 percent of women in the same age group agree. That's a big gap, but not necessarily surprising considering about 80 percent of columnist Dear Abby's female readers once told her that they'd much prefer to have a meaningful conversation with their partner than a good romp.

And it's not just a U.S. phenomenon-- things aren't too great Down Under, either.

A recent survey of about 9,000 Australians, of whom 73 percent were married, finds similar numbers -- 54 percent of men and 42 percent of women are unhappy with how often they're having sex. The men overwhelmingly wanted more action, while a third of the women said they were getting more than they wanted, thank you very much.

Clearly, there's a problem in the marital bed.

But can that lead to divorce?

Yes, according to Denise A. Donnelly, an associate professor of sociology at Georgia State University, who has studied sexless marriage. "People in sexless marriages report that they are more likely to have considered divorce, and that they are less happy in their marriages," Donnelly told the New York Times in 2008, noting that 15 percent of married couples hadn't gotten it on with their spouse in the prior six months to one year.

Of course, that doesn't mean they haven't had sex with someone else.

No one's quite clear on what makes a marriage "sexless" anyway. Some would say it's sexless if you're having sex 10 times a year or less. Others, like Dean Mason, who runs FixYourSexlessMarriage.com, says it comes down to defining what your personal threshold is. If you want it daily and you're getting it weekly, that falls under the "sexless" banner, too. And evidently, married folks are actually getting it on a little more than once a week -- 58 times a year -- according to the General Social Survey, which has tracked the social behaviors of Americans since 1972.

So who's saying, "Not tonight, dear, I have a headache!"? Not who you might think.

A lot more men are often not in the mood, says Susan Yager-Berkowitz and Bob Berkowitz, the husband-wife team who surveyed 4,000 people for their book He's Just Not Up for It Anymore. While there may be lots of research on treating sexual dysfunction, which affects about 31 percent of men, there hasn't been much research on men who have lost their sexual desire, the authors say.

And it's not something men are likely to bring up in the locker room either, says marriage counselor Michele Weiner Davis. "To be disinterested in sex is to feel less than a man," she writes in The Sex-Starved Marriage. "Just thinking about low libido -- let alone talking about it -- strikes terror in men because it threatens the very foundation upon which their feelings of self-worth are based. No wonder they're tight-lipped."

Unless they're talking about their wife's lack of interest in sex, of course.

Guys tend to mention that a lot.

 

Weight, children, work, porn, stress, unemployment, depression, power struggles, menopause, infidelity, nagging -- there are any number of reasons why couples stop having sex for weeks or months at a time. But the underlying issue may be anger -- more than 40 percent of the men surveyed by the Berkowitzes said that they're mad at their wives. Wives, of course, are just as angry; in a survey of more than 1,000 moms in Parenting magazine, "Mad at Dad," 46 percent said they get mad at their significant other once a week or more (54 percent if they have babies in the house),

and 1 in 10 say their anger is "deep and long-lasting."

No amount of Viagra is going to take care of that!

And then there are those who say, who needs sex to be happily coupled?

59 percent of men and 69 percent of women ages 56 to 65 believe that couples can have a strong relationship without sexual activity, according to the AP/LifeGoesStrong.com poll.

Really?

I'm not so sure about that,

unless there's a real medical issue preventing a couple from intercourse.

But, even if that's so, there are many reasons why going sexless isn't healthy -- mentally, emotionally and physically. "The fountain of youth can be found between the sheets," says Dr. Mark Anderson, coauthor with Dr. Walter Gaman and Judith Gaman of Stay Young: 10 Proven Steps to Ultimate Health. "Frequent intercourse causes the brain to release human growth hormone, which helps maintain youth."

It also relieves stress, boosts the immune and cardiovascular systems, burns calories, reduces the risk of prostate cancer, and a lot of other good things.

Plus, it's fun!

So here are some fun and different activities to ignite that spark again.

Rather than sitting at home watching sports, set the DVR and take to some fun sports-inspired activities for couples. Not only can you get your daily sports fix, but you can engage your partner and find fun new things to do together. Your favorite teams can wait until you get home.

Jog outside together

The fall season is the perfect time for outdoor jogging for several reasons. The weather is still warm enough that you don't have to bundle up in a coat but cool enough to feel refreshing. If you find yourselves near a park, you'll be able to see the beautiful fall colors as the leaves change around you. Lastly, and probably the best reason to go as a couple, jogging is a great warm-up for other activities that you might want to do when you get back. *wink wink*

 

Tailgate a game

Even for your partner does not watch football, who can resist a great tailgate party? It's a great introduction to the game and excitement is sure to spread even to someone who knows nothing about the sport. After all, it would definitely be easier to carve out your Sundays to watch the game if you're going to do it together.

 

Take a dance class

Dance may not fall into the same category as traditional team sports, but it's definitely a great excuse to share your intimacy in new ways.If your'e a fan of 'Dancing with the Stars', watching them makes you think, if they can try and do this, so can I! Learn something sexy like the tango or salsa and keep the beat by moving along with your partner's rhythm. There's no better way to set a romantic mood than to hold your bodies close in dance.

 

Wrestle in the bedroom

Be a little mischievous with your sportiness and take it into the bedroom. Playfully wrestle and make up from your "fight" passionately between the sheets. The adrenaline will create a heightened experience for both of you.

Now that you've started that fire again...

perhaps you need just something a little bit different in the bedroom.

A good start would be a special lubricant!

For instance, Wet Together!

His is a water based and it warms. Hers is a silicone based and tingles. She applies his to him. He applies hers to her. The intimate act of touching makes the connection with two exciting sensations.

When combined, skin to skin, both unique Wet Together formulas provide longer lasting, silky smooth lubrication and sensation, since one is a silicone and the other a water they can't dry out like other 'couples' lubricants. They stay around longer for your entire session. Use as needed to supplement natural moisture and gently enhance pleasure. Reapply as desired. Easily washes away with mild soap and warm water. Will not harm latex.

We hope everyone has a safe & sexy weekend!!!

 

Pump You Up!

It's comes down to about 50/50, men who swear by penis pumps and other men who are skeptics.

Let's go though some do's and don'ts

*Most penis pumps have a ring around the bottom to help seal the pump and to protect the penis against chaffing. Start by lubricating your penis with a thick, good quality lubricant. A great example of a thick, good quality lubricant is Wet Gelee Original

*Now, put your penis in the pump through this ring. It is a good idea to trim or shave your pubic hair, as having too much hair can prevent the pump from making a good seal and is uncomfortable to have the hair pulled on by the pump.

*Now start by either pumping the provided hand-held device or push the button on the electric pump which does this for you.

*The penis pump will now start creating suction and drawing blood in the area. Your penis will get bigger and thicker and more swollen. This will take about 3-5 minutes to do so.

*Now take your penis out of the pump. Your penis will be bigger until the end of your orgasm, and will go back to its normal size and shape after this time.

Now some precautions to go through...

*Make sure you know where the safety release valve is when penis pumping. Testicles can actually get sucked up into the tube while pumping. Prevent the worst from happening and know how to quickly release the safety release valve!

*Vascular damage can occur if you apply too much pressure to your penis, so please, go slow and do not over pump yourself. Ruptured capillaries and blood vessels can result in internal bleeding bruises on the penis. In very extreme cases this internal bleeding can result in Peyronie's disease or permanent disfigurement or even impotence.

*The most common negative side effects of over pumping are a slight discoloration of the penis, blisters and fewer, softer erections from negative effects on blood circulation from over pumping.

*Limit all sessions to 20 minutes or under and remember,

start with the least amount of pressure until you figure out your limitations.

Using your pump around the clock, and thinking that cramming all this pumping time will speed up the process to a bigger harder penis is wrong. Truth is that's doing WAY more harm then good.

 No one wants a blistered, disfigured penis.

*If for any reason you start feeling pain, stop immediately and consult your doctor.

Milking Does the Body GOOD!

It's Prostate Awareness Month
and let's chat about prostate milking.

Many men enjoy prostate milking, which is the process of massaging and rubbing the male prostate gland, a walnut shaped area reached via the anus in men.

Prostate milking and its benefits are relatively unheard of by many men in the western world, on the basis that it may seem gay, dirty, unhealthy or taboo.

However, prostate milking is actually a pleasurable process that has a multitude of health benefits.

Many men are now only just realizing the benefits of prostate massage.

It is important that we dispel some of the myths associated with prostate milking…

 

MYTH - Prostate milking is for gays, and is what gays do.

This is the most common retort to any information about prostate milking. It is important to understand that milking the prostate gland has been done since the beginning of time, for both sexual pleasure as well as its important health benefits.

 

MYTH - Prostate milking leads to infections as anal play is dirty

This again, is untrue – Practiced hygienically, anal play is not dirty.

More importantly, prostate milking does not lead to infection if the man has no prostate conditions.

It is important to get yourself checked by your doctor to determine your prostate health before you start milking your prostate.

 

Self-Prostate Milking

You can practice self-prostate milking in the privacy of your own home whenever you please, using your fingers, a sex toy, or a g spot/p spot  massager.

Either way, use plenty of lubricant, and take things slowly. Many men masturbate while practicing self-prostate milking.

Prostate Milking – Sexual Benefits

• Male prostate milking can lead to multiple non-ejaculatory orgasms
• Milking the prostate gland increases the amount of semen produced
• Many men suffering from erectile dysfunction can use prostate milking to greatly improve erection strength.
• Prostate milking results in more intense and powerful orgasms
• Prostate milking enhances a man’s overall sex drive

Prostate Milking – Health Benefits

• Greatly increased blood flow to the genital area and prostate gland
• Male prostate milking helps in the prevention of prostate problems and improve health
• Prostate milking can flush out the buildup of toxins in the prostate gland

How is prostate milking beneficial for male prostate health?

Male prostate milking is beneficial for male prostate health for many reasons. Male prostate milking complements antibiotics, antimicrobials, and herbal remedies. It does this by assisting circulation to the male prostate gland in order to increase the medicines efficacy. The reason male prostate milking can do this is because the male prostate gland is a complex structure made up of tiny sacs, in which bacteria grows. This bacterial infection leads to swelling and inflammation, which leads to the closing of the sac. This action makes removal of harmful bacteria from the sac impossible, even with the help of antibiotics when your body’s own immune system has already failed.
The more the sacs are closed off, the more your chances of having an enlarged prostate increases.
It is this that interferes with your urinary and sexual functions.

A Glass What?!?

In our line of work, we always get admirers of our glass toys,
but they will always say that glass scares them & they can't imagine using glass.
Well here's some friendly information of the great things about glass so you can possibly

spice up your sex life today! 

 Glass toys are works of art that both excite and stimulate pure pleasure.

There's no doubt that you'll love the perks of glass dildos.

*Glass Sex Toys Are The Easiest To Clean*

Just a minute is all it takes to ensure a glass toy is crystal clean.

Since glass toys never absorb anything, and are nonporous, it doesn't take any time to scrub them clean.

The non-porous material means that nothing will stick to it as it would with rubber or silicone types of toys which means less time cleaning and much, much more time playing!

Not only that, but making your glass sex toy sanitary again, when using it in more places than just the vagina, is as simple as using a sanitary wipe.

*Allergies*

For those sensitive people out there, glass is a match for you!

Phthalates free & hypo-allergenic.

*Nice & Hard*

Glass toys, for the majority, are made of borosilicate glass, common name, Pyrex.

It's a hard, solid, smooth, heavy glass.

Some people find that a hard surface helps them achieve their orgasm,

and what an orgasm it is!

*Warm 'Em Up Or Cool 'Em Down*

 

Add some warmth for a steamy seduction, or charm them with a chill.
Glass dildos adapt to temperatures; making it ideal for an alternative stimulation.

 

*Glass Dildos Can Last Forever*

 

When properly cared for a glass dildo may never have to be replaced.
Glass toys don't deteriorate over time since they  never absorb anything.
Other adult toys may loose their novelty over the years,

but hand blown glass dildos can stay beautiful for a lifetime.

 

 

 *A Helpful Tip*

 Whenever you indulge in glass toys, be sure to have plenty of lube.

Since you don't have to worry about a particular lubricant harming your toy,

a silicone lubricant is safe to use on these glass beauties.

Just be sure to apply the lubricant to yourself instead of the toy, reason is you don't want

the surface to get too slippery that you drop your precious toy.

Have fun and explore!

Everyone makes mistakes...

We ARE only human,
these are just some mistakes that BOTH men & women

make about their partner...

 

Sex Mistake No.1: You Know What He/She Wants

We often make assumptions about what our partner wants based upon what they've done with other partners. Like a snowflake, no 2 people are the same, we're all different.

You develop a routine as we mature sexually, but we should never assume that what worked for the last person is going to work for this person.

This also applies not only to sexual preferences, but also to relationships,

There are people who can have 'no-strings-attached' sex, and there are people who can get attached very easily, and then everyone in between.

 

Sex Mistake No. 2: You Have All Your Partner Needs

Some women can't have an orgasm with less than 3,000 rpm. No human tongue or fingers can generate that kind of vibration. Some men, need a little something extra to orgasm too! People typically think something is wrong if someone needs a vibrator.

If the only way that a woman/man can achieve orgasm is with a vibrator, they're not broken.

Think of a vibrator as your assistant, not your substitute. Many couples use vibrators together. While you're doing one thing, or two things, the vibrator can be doing something else.
Some couple friendly vibrators, a vibrating cock ring

and when you want to graduate to the big leagues

The We-Vibe II, the couple's vibrator that can be worn while having sex, it won best toy 2 years in a row, and it's still listed as a must have even after coming out years ago!
It's made with medical grade silicone, water proof,
and re-chargeable!

Sex Mistake No. 3: Sex Feels the Same for Men and Women

There tends to be a "huge disconnect" between men and women in the ways that sex feels good.

When a man has intercourse with a woman, and his penis goes into her body, that sensation is so off the charts for most men, they cannot imagine that it isn't feeling the same way for her.
It couldn't be further from the truth.

The inside of the vagina is probably less sensitive than the outer parts for most women.
Also, deep thrusting may not feel so nice on the receiving end for one person to the next.
If the penis is too long, some women may feel like they're getting punched in the stomach.

There are some cock rings out that can act like a 'stopper' for longer penis'.

Not only is this support ring helping with keeping an erection, but depending on where it's placed, can prevent the penis from going in any further.

Sex Mistake No. 4: You Know Your Way Around Your Partner's Anatomy

Most guys know generally what a clitoris is and where to find it.

That's not to say that they really understand it.

More than 30 years ago, at the start of the "sexual revolution," a best-selling book called the Joy of Sex got Americans hip to the orgasmic importance of the clitoris.

But the belief that women must be able to orgasm from ONLY vaginal penetration stubbornly persists.

Outside media such as movies & TV shows don't help the matter.

Now some men STILL think that if their partner can't orgasm from intercourse unless she has clitoral stimulation, that there is a problem.

No it's not a problem, it's perfectly normal.

For the majority of women, an orgasm isn't going to happen with only penetration. 

Men also lack information about how to touch the clitoris and how sensitive it is.

A touch that's bliss for one woman may feel like nothing special to another,

or may even be painful for someone else.

Some prefer indirect stimulation.

How can you find out how she likes to be touched?

This also applies to men, one man may feel fine with a finger up their butt while others want nothing up their butt. The area outside the butt, the perineum is outside of the prostate and a gentle massage of this area may feel great for one guy

and nothing special for the next guy.

The best way to handle something you don't know is to ask or ask while touching your partner,

"How does this feel?".

 

Sex Mistake No. 5: Wet = Turned On

Guys sometimes get hung up if a woman doesn't get slippery enough for easy penetration.

Don't worry about it.

There's a myth that if you're turned on, you're wet,  not necessarily.

Some women tend to get wetter than others, and how much natural lubrication a woman has can change from day to day. It varies by the phase of her menstrual cycle, and it's subject to influences like stress, pre-menopausal and medications.

This is an easy fix, lube

or saliva from performing oral on your partner.

 

Sex Mistake No. 6: Silence Is Golden

A lot of guys think they should be silent during sex, but unless you speak up, your partner has to guess what's doing it for you and what isn't.

If you're respectful about it, a woman who wants to please you will probably appreciate some directions.

We're not saying push her head in your lap, rather 'This is how I like it' or  a simple 'Faster', 'Slower', 'Harder', is a very useful conversation to have.

Happy Friday!