Sex in the Shower

Who doesn’t love sex? But are there ever those times when you’re in a hurry, you need to shower to get ready to leave, but you’re so insanely horny you feel like you won’t make it without getting down and dirty quickly? What better way to ease your needs than SHOWER SEX! We can’t think of a better way to get dirty while you’re getting clean. Sex in the shower is a fun way to heat things up, try new things, and enjoy your lover more intimately.

Lucky for us, Sportsheets knows how to get down with the get down, and created an entire line of sex toys designed specifically for shower play; from extreme suction handles and footrests to loofah doggie style straps, all of your shower needs are fulfilled with the ‘Sex in the Shower’ toys and attachments.

Shunga also kept shower play in mind when they came out with their flavored-yes flavored- bath and shower gels. These gentle cleaners are enhanced with vitamin E and made from vegetable oils in order to ensure silky smooth skin, as well as a tasty treat for you and your lover to enjoy!

Even Jopen had shower play in mind when they came out with their 100% waterproof, 100% rechargeable toy options. Whether you want to play on your own with their extremely popular Vanity Vr15, or you want your lover to join you equipped with his Ego e1 (which is our 100% waterproof, 100% rechargeable vibrating cock ring), these toys are made for water play. With silicone seals protecting the charging ports, Jopen toys are ready to get soaked in an orgasmic bliss that used to be merely a quick, uneventful shower.

Of course lubricant is a must in all sexual situations, but shower sex requires a silicone lubricant for skin on skin play. Silicone lubricants are fully waterproof, so they won’t dry up or wash away from the stream of the showerhead.  Just be careful, because silicone lubes are extremely slippery, so make certain not to spill any, or you’ll be slipping and sliding all over the bathroom!

Alright, now we’ve given you all the basics you need in order to grab your lover or your favorite waterproof toy and enjoy the extra steamy showers you’ll be looking forward to from now on.  So don’t wait another second….start the shower and get steamy!

Play Like Grey... Toy Box Basics pt. 2

In last week’s blog, we touched base about some toy box basics; your first and maybe most important items to always have on hand. This week, we feel it’s important to keep our readers minds open. With the recent hype over 50 Shades of Grey, the once timid Soccer Mom is turning into the Sex Kitten she’s always dreamt of but more and more often, we find men and women are completely clueless when it comes to anything fetish. So yet again, we’ve put together a list of basics and just a few techniques to turn anyone into an experienced Christian Grey…

Blind Fold – Every woman needs a little mystery in her life, and what better way to heighten your senses than taking one away? By using a blindfold while playing creates a sensory overload. Every little touch, and tickle is intensified by the mystery of not knowing what is going to happen next…

                Spice it Up Tip: Having a feather tickler to tempt and tease your partner’s special spots while their blindfolded will be sure to leave them craving more! Because they are unable to see what you are doing, the suspense followed by the tickling sensation will give them chills all over.

 

Basic Restraint System – Whether it’s handcuffs, to soft cuffs, to rope….we all need a little kink in our lives! Restraints are a staple to any toy box due to the extra sexiness they can bring to any play session. These restraints can be used so that he can take control, or you can take control of him too! By giving up some control, or by taking control from your lover, you are able to explore fantasies you may have only dreamt of!

                Spice it Up Tip: Using restraints and the blindfold together are sure to kink up your play time! The suspense of not being able to see what is happening coupled with the inability to control what is happening give that extra thrill of excitement that will leave you breathless!

Flogger, Crop or Paddle – With so many styles on the market, it’s hard to choose just one! Start with a flogger that has thicker straps, this will create more of a ‘thuddy’ feeling and less of sting. It’s always a good idea to get some practice in before play. Take a firm stance and try taking a few swings at your pillow. Can you make the tails hit the same place every time? Once you’re comfortable and have a good rhythm, now you’re ready to send your partners adrenaline through the roof!

                Spice it Up Tip: Don’t forget your blindfold! Sensory play is a great way to ‘amp’ up the anticipation, and a great way to bond and create trust between partners. And just like the light tickle from your feather, the sensation of the flogger becomes more intense, taking your already pumping adrenaline to the next level!

 

Nipple Clamps – Nipples are one of the most sensitive parts of the body. In fact, 1 in 5 women can have an orgasm from nipple stimulation alone! Along with creating a variable amount of pressure, pain or vibration, nipple clamps create a great deal of aesthetic appeal. Start with something adjustable. Successful application requires the wearer to find a personal balance between the amount of pain and pleasure by fine tuning the degree of pressure exerted by the clamp

                Spice it Up Tip: Bring on the ice cubes! Try tracing different parts of the body with the ice itself or by placing the ice in your mouth and kissing the already sensitive parts of the body. This will also help soothe any pressure and intensify the tingle from the applied clamps.

With so many different types of fetishes it’s hard to know where to start. Communication is going to be the most important aspect of any partnership and finding a comfortable medium comes from honesty and open-mindedness. But with a little practice and a few toy box basics, anyone can learn to play like Grey…

Toy Box Essentials Pt. 1

Every woman has needs. Sure, we love our shoes, and our make up, and our purses, and clothes. But we as women have other needs too, needs that we may not always be as open about. Let’s face it, we all play with ourselves, we all have sex, and we all love it! So of course we need to make sure we are always prepared for whatever crazy encounter may fall our way, and what better way of preparing than making sure your toy box has these necessary tools for exploring and enhancing ever fantasy you may have.

–Lubricant: Did you know it is Doctor recommended to use a lubricant every time, whether you need it or not? Normally as women we need a little warming up before we’re ready to go, and by having lubricant at your disposal every time you want to play is key. Lubricant allows for a much more enjoyable experience, reducing any unwanted friction in dry spots.

                  Spice it Up Tip: Sensation lubricants are especially fun to play with because they add to the already irresistible sensations you are longing for. Cooling or tingling lubricants are especially fun because they open nerve endings causing for a tingling, more sensitive adventure. It is best to use tingling lubricants on your nipples and clitoris. Warming lubricants are fun as well because they cause the areas where you use them to flush, causing more blood to flow to the areas where it’s used. This means he may get a little more swollen, and you may get a little tighter. Mixing the two of these sensations together creates a tingling warming eruption of sensation for both you and your partner.

-Bullet: This should be the first and most important piece in your toy-box! Bullets are the most versatile and least expensive toy you’ll find in any Adult Toy Store. Bullets are great for all over body stimulation, including the nipples, clitoris and even the shaft and testicles. Simply place a bullet on the side of your cheek while performing oral play and your mouth is an instant vibrator!

                  Spice it Up Tip: Wireless bullets with remotes are especially fun to take with you on shopping trips or movie dates. By sliding the wireless bullet into the crotch of your panties and handing your partner the remote, you can make any shopping trip an erotic adventure…. grocery shopping will never be the same!

-Massage Oil: Who doesn’t like a good massage? Physical contact between two people creates a strong bond while the intimacy of the physical contact and friction are sure to heat up any evening!

                  Spice it Up Tip: Using a warming, flavored lubricant as a massage oil is the perfect way to turn a typical massage into a warming, tasty treat! This is perfect for going from a massage directly into intercourse, without having to clean up the oil and reapply lubricant.

-Vibrating Cock Ring: Sex is awesome, and we all already know that. What you might not know is how amazing sex can be when you incorporate a vibrating cock ring into the mix. The ring will give him support by helping restrict the blood flow out of the erection, while you are enjoying a heavenly humming of vibration throughout not only his erection, but on your clitoris as well. Who wouldn’t love the sensation of a rabbit on a man!

                  Spice it Up Tip: Try using a vibrating cock ring with a remote. This way you can control which function you want, and at what intensity you want the vibration. What’s fun about most of these too is that the bullet that is creating the vibrating sensation in the cock ring is removable, so you have a wireless bullet and cock ring all in one!

Now of course these are just the basic essentials that should be in your toy box. As you accumulate more toys and treasures, this toy box will grow. Whether it’s rabbits, to straight vibrators, to butt plugs, to glass toys…. the sky is the limit! It’s all about exploration- learning what’s out there, and figuring out what works best for you.  There are many more things that can be added to your toy box in order to make it the ultimate pleasure chest, so stay tuned to find out how to Kink Up Your Toy Box!!