Blow His Mind!

If there’s one skill that every man would like a woman to have, that is none other than knowing
how to give a B.J., giving head, or a blow job.
The old saying 'you have to give to recieve' doesn't fall far from this advice!

One of the most common mistakes that women make is thinking
that all the work should be done by the man in the relationship.

However, if you want to have a great sex life,
you should do your part and learn about the techniques
in bed that will give him the utmost sexual pleasure.

So what exactly does it take to give a man great head?

Below is a crash course on how to give a man great head,
which will lead him to have an orgasm that he is not bound to forget anytime soon.
So great, that he will want to pay you back again and again and again!

Step 1: Be In A Comfortable Position

Just like penetrative sex,
there are a multitude of positions that you can try while learning how to give a B.J. to your guy.
You can either have him lie down in bed, have him standing up or make him sit on a comfortable couch.

Let’s say that you choose the last position.
What you can do here is kneel in between his legs
so that you can gain easy access to all ‘the goods’.

Although it only takes a few minutes of direct stimulation for a man to have an orgasm especially when you’re using your mouth, you would not want to have things over too soon – so make sure that you’re in a comfortable position while going down on him.

Step 2: Start Giving Him Head By Slowly Licking Him

It doesn’t matter if he’s already hard or not.
The best way to start giving him head is by using your tongue in one long,
slow licking motion from the base of his penis all the way up.

Do this on as many sides of his penis as you can,
then when you feel that he’s all worked up,
that is the time that you can slowly take him into your mouth.

Step 3: Use Your Tongue, Mouth & Fingers

As you slowly take his penis deep into your mouth, make sure that you don’t ignore the rest of his package. Use your tongue, mouth and fingers to stimulate the rest of his shaft.  Use an up and down motion with your fingers to cover the part of the shaft which you cannot take into your mouth. Making an up & down motion with your mouth and hands, is just the beginning,
but don't forget to suck as well.
Creating a suction around his penis encourages more blood flow to his member and more sensation.

Showing him that you are really into it will be a huge turn on, so stare into his eyes and watch his reaction.  Finally, marvel in your sexual prowess at your being able to give him the ultimate pleasure in bed – and use every tool at your disposal to give him a mind-blowing orgasm that he’s not bound to forget anytime soon!

 

Tips

*Don’t forget to gently tug at, lick or even place one of his balls into your mouth
(if you know that he likes it or don't know yet, try it!)
You want to make giving head an extra pleasurable experience and unforgettable for him.

* A great tasty lubricant

is great incentive for the giver of the BJ, besides seeing your guy get off.

*Some guys may even like a pinky or fore finger graze his anal opening or to even be inserted.
(be sure to have neat, short nails.)
If not your finger, a slender vibrator or prostate massager

* Apply slight pressure applied in 'taint' or perineum area
(the area of skin between the scrotum and anal opening) with your thumb.
Lightly grazing with your finger tips will also give a tingle (close to a tickling) sensation.

*For the giver of this oral pleasure,
the gag reflex on some people may be more sensitive than others when attempting some deep throat action. An interesting trick for when you feel the gag reflex coming is to simply swallow.
This takes practice to know not to panic and to time it when
you know are going to place his penis deeper in your mouth.
Relax, breathe through your nose and if all else fails a quick fix is a throat numbing spray

 or gel/balm

 

Warnings

The worst way to receive a blowjob is for the receiver to

actually feel your teeth on him – so keep your teeth covered with your lips.

The best way to prevent accidentally grazing his penis with your teeth is by relaxing your jaw.

Spring has Sprung!

Spring time is upon us.

Spring usually symbolizes regrowth, awakening, fertility and generation.

We're here to help you awaken your sexual lust from it's hibernation...

whether you're in a sexual funk, in a rut or just plain bored, 

we have some tips!

Bring Treats into the Bedroom...

What says 'Spring' like fruit?!?

Some delectable strawberries, sweet cherries, and juicy orange slices.

Take turns eating them directly from each other's mouth.       

 You can even take turns eating treats off each other's bodies.


Sensual Massage

A massage is a great way to build intimacy & closeness between you and your partner.

Start out with a warm enough room so your partner can be nude.

Now you don't have to be a professional and don't try too hard to be.

Massage oil and free roaming hands, starting from the neck/back down to legs/feet.

One of our favorite massage oils is Shunga Organica .

It has a light crisp green tea scent.

Add a New Toy to Your Lineup

 
One of our favorites fresh out from Cal Exotic is the Silly Diver!

The ever popular Diving Dolphin® is now a premium Silicone dual massager

It has a soft, smooth, and unscented Silicone shaft and clitoral dolphin.

 With 7 incredible functions of vibration, pulsation, and escalation,

3 speeds of shaft rotation with reverse rotation function,

and 3 rows of non-jamming pleasure beads!

Not to mention a easy-to-use control panel with illuminated LED lights

with a 4 second power off button.

This Silly Diver is a sure winner in our book!

A Different Lubricant

With Spring also come allergies.

As we grow older we may develop an allergy that we didn't have before.

This is applied to products that we can no longer use, such as a particular lubricant.

Luckily, Organic Lubricant's are become more available and a little bit more affordable

Made with Sea Kelp and Guava Bark, Defense Lubricant is a premium paraben-free, glycerin-free water based formula that was designed to work with the body and not disrupt healthy microflora. Made with Certified Organic Extracts, Defense blends naturally with a woman’s natural fluids and is latex condom friendly and safe to use with any toy.

Have fun exploring your many options that Spring may bring you.

How To Pick The Right Toy For Yourself

With a zillion and one sex toys out there, finding the right one for you can seem like a daunting task. Everywhere you go, there's new online retailers that offer about a million different styles, products, and sizes of sex toys.

So how do you know which one is right for you?

Let me help you out.

Let me start my handy-dandy primer with this: quality matters.

Take it from me, who once bought the absolute cheapest vibrator possible only to have it nearly explode while I was using it. Not, as you might guess, something I want to happen to you. Or anyone. Ever.

Buying quality doesn't mean you have to spend a zillion dollars, just try and go with the middle of the road toy, price-wise.

With that said, let's find you a sex toy!

I like to keep my sex toys versatile, especially when it comes to speed. That way I can adjust the speed and intensity whenever I want.

Most vibrators feel great on the clitoris, so anything you pick should be great there.

I love the 10x Power Bullet 

for clitoral stimulation. The 10x Power Bullet gives you a strong vibration & variety in pulsation. If you prefer a cordless option T.C.B. Bullet.

T.C.B. really does 'take care of business'!

Its simple design gives you 3 speeds by push button, quiet and much strength, despite its small appearance!

If you're looking for something to reach the G-spot (up inside the vagina) they make a lot of great vibrators specifically for that particular area.

The Couture Collection Seduction Stimulator

It's curved design makes great contact.

If you want a blended orgasm (I highly recommend!), go with something like the

G Kiss

which will stimulate both your G-spot AND your C-spot (clitoris) at the same time. They make a ton of different varieties of these. You have your choice of these, whether girth, length, rotating, bendable, etc.

If you're looking to be discreet about your sex toy, there's the

Maxi Wanachi

which (supposedly) fools airport security every time. It'll also fool nosy roommates and children, should you want to hide your sex toy in plain sight, looks like a neck massager.

My favorite, though (and yes, I've tried them all) is the We-Vibe 2,

which is a vibrator you can wear while having sex with a partner. It feels amazing for both involved and (here's the best part) can be used solo, too. It's like two for the price of one!

There's a We-Vibe 3 which is the exact same design, but has a wireless remote, charging dock, 6 modes instead of 9, and 4x more stronger vibrations.

 Happy Shopping and Happy Friday!

The Best Top 5 for 2011

Our year is coming to a close and us here at Studio 21 Ltd are reminiscing about our top sellers!

Our Top Sellers in each catergory:
lubricants, pills, vibrators, from beginner's, advanced and couples.

We have come across a whole lot of lubricants in our field of work, and after going through a lot of testimony's from consumers this one takes the cake! 

Wet Synergy Original

We can't begin to describe our LOVE for this lube!

Wet came up with a perfect blend of a water + silicone lubricant.

It starts out like a gel to liquid that is silky smooth. It's unscented, hypoallergenic, latex friendly and is an easy clean up! It's a universal product since it's safe for ALL toys and 'sex-in-the-shower' friendly. Imagine this you're getting down and dirty, from the living room, to the bedroom, then you hop in the shower together!

Guess what?

Synergy is STILL there!

Oh yeah, we love this product!

Pills, again there's a whole lot of sexual supplement pills out there for men, from the one's that work to the one's that are just 'Eh!'

Now through consumers AND some employee testimony's, the winner is...

Sex Voltz!

This 72 hour pill is a great blend of active ingredients and herbal supplements.

For men that weigh less than 200 lbs, one pill is sufficient, if he's over 200 lbs. then it's safe to take 2 capsules. This pill is becoming a favorite for men of all age groups, from the 21-39 years old, this pill is allowing them to get an erection again faster after climaxing. For the men in the over 40 age group, this still gives them the results without the 'hangover' headache.

It provides a firmer, harder erectile response, improves sexual performance, and longer lasting sexual sessions.

This pill can be taken with alcohol, in moderation.

For best results take on an empty stomach for the pill to kick-in with-in 30-45 minutes, if food has been consumed, then wait 5 hours after a meal to have the same kick-in time. With any enhancement pills, it shouldn't be taken by anyone with diabetes, high blood pressure or existing heart conditions. 

Now our beginner vibe, it's been around for awhile, but it has yet to disappoint,

Lia Dual Stimulator

It's sleek, quiet, powerful dual motors, pliable, pure silicone, with 10 different functions.

This is a great beginner dual vibrator with it's slender design and easy operation.

It's 5" in length and has a 1" girth.  

The powerful motors are strategically placed for G-spot stimulation and clitoral stimulation.

The ridged design is pleasurable without being overwhelming.

This vibrator gets an 'A+' from us.

The next two vibrators are new to the scene but they're making waves of satisfaction across the board!

The advanced vibrator pick is from the

Couture Collection Colétte Curved Massager

This one is new, but WOW is it powerful!

It has 7 functions of vibration, pulsation & escalation. It's flexible shaft moves with you, feather touch controls with luminous LED lights, that light up to which vibrating motor is being turned on, silky smooth unscented silicone, whisper quiet, it can be used in and out of water,

3 motors throughout the shaft, and a fast automatic on/off button. 

It's 6.25" long and 1.75" in girth.

Powerful, is one word to sum up this seamless sleek vibe!

Last, but certainly not least, the highly-anticipated

We-Vibe 3

The We-Vibes were great to begin with, but now it's COMPLETELY seamless, 

has a wireless remote, 40% more power and a high tech magnetic charge station.

Toys have come a long way, and this one takes the cake for best in show.

We hope for more new exciting toys in the New Year so we can keep brining you the very best!

Sexy Gift Time!!!

Shunga Erotic Art products are a favorite for us at Studio 21 Ltd.

The gift sets, the quality of the product, the various purposes, make recommending a product, to a wide range of customers, easy!

The number one seller for us would be the Garden of Edo,

This set goes from mild to wild!

The set has 5 fabulous items that we'll describe and pair up the products to have multiple purposes!

First up is Organica Massage Oil,

in Exotic Green Tea, this is edible, certified organic, and silky to the touch.

This non sticky massage oil is perfect for massages.

Helpful tip...warm up the bottle in a bowl of hot water to adjust the temperature just right!

Second is Intimate Kisses Aphrodisiac Oil

in Exotic Green Tea

the Aphrodisiac Oil is edible, certified organic, and a thicker consistency than the Massage Oil,

it's purpose is for erogenous zones, it gets warm by breathing on it, so think about that hot spot on your self or your partner that you would love to entice with just your breath.

Helpful tip...if putting the massage oil in a bowl of hot water takes to much prep time for you, add a few drops of the Aphrodisiac Oil to the Massage Oil for an instant warming effect. 

Third, in the set is Lotus Noir Sensitizing Gel For Lovers

 This Sensitizing Gel is for both females & males, it has a cooling effect, edible (strawberries & champagne flavor!), & is certified organic. For men when massaged with your fingertips onto the head of the penis during foreplay, it increases blood flow to the penis. For women,when massaged onto the clitoris is makes it more sensitive.

For an intensely pleasurable shared experience apply more if needed.

Fourth, in the set is Toko Organica

 this lubricant is made with pure vegetable glycerin and a natural corn by-product, both certified organic. It's delicate texture and endless sensual lubricity intensify sensations for prolonged moments of intimacy.

Helpful tip...you can pair up this lubricant with the Aphrodisiac Oil for a warming lubricant or pair it with the Lotus Noir for a cooling lubricant.

 Fifth, and last up in the multi-purpose set is the Oriental Crystals Lotus Flower

Exuding the aphrodisiac scent of lotus flowers and made with 100% natural minerals from the Dead Sea, this salt helps you relax before lovemaking in arousing salt water reminiscent of green lagoons. Let the bubbles caress your skin, making it soft and inviting for those intense moments of intimacy.

Helpful tips...

the included actual sea shell that is a scoop for the sea salts, it's ridged side also doubles as a pumice stone. While soaking this is a great time to pumice your heels and elbows making them super soft! A great pairing for this product is the massage oil the have an exfoliating massage for your back, hands, feet and or face! Smells exquisite! 



Sexy Food

While there's no real hard-core scientific proof that there are aphrodisiac foods, but there are many experts that say that there are some foods that tickle pleasure points in the brain and the body, thus enhancing a sexual experience.

Dark chocolate, for instance, increases serotonin, a brain chemical that makes you feel good, which in hand, may help you get in a ready-to-have-fun mood.



Oysters, another legendary libido-boosting food, contain alot of zinc.

Your body needs zinc to produce testosterone, which is linked to a healthy sex drive in men and women.

Spicy foods rev up your heart rate, making you feel hot and bothered.

A glass of wine or a cocktail can also be a mood enhancer by reducing inhibitions. Just don't go overboard with the amount that you drink. Too much alcohol can have the opposite effect and make it more difficult for you and your partner to reach orgasm.

When it comes to a sexy meal, it's not so much what you eat, but how you eat it.

Go to the market and pick oit foods that look, smell, and even taste sexy to you. Then spend the evening together savoring each pleasurable bite.

Feeding each other at the table or, better yet, in the bedroom can be very arousing!

Just stick with finger foods to avoid stressing out about the possible mess.

Above all don't rush: the slower and more sensual the experience,

the greater the erotic end result!

Signs Men Want To Have Sex

Besides the obvious...

here are some body language signs to look for to point out your man is ready to get down and dirty!

He gets an "eye erection."

His pupils dilate, making the black part of the eye go from small to larger, something that happens when arousal spikes.

He hooks his thumbs in his belt loops.

It's an attempt to highlight the crotchal region and get you thinking about his junk.

 

He touches his nose a lot.

Unless he has a cold, this could be a sign since the Journal of the Royal Medicine recently reported that the nerves in a guy's nose and his erectile tissue are linked.

 

He speaks more deeply than usual.

A 2010 study found that people lower the pitch of their voice when they're turned on.

 

He cups or rubs your shoulder.

This is often a subconscious simulation of grabbing some tata.

He goes in for a hug and rests his hands low on your back.

It may not feel sexual, but if he lingers just above your ass, he could be craving, well, ass.

He bites his lower lip and shakes his head.

Men who do this when they're talking to you may be feeling frisky.

A Sexless Marriage

Marriage is in trouble.

Oh, I don't mean because about 4 out of every 10 of us think it's becoming obsolete, although that certainly doesn't bode well for it. No, it's not because of what 'celebrity' is in the headlines this week for cheating -- too many of us aren't getting any action at home.

 

There are more than 17,000 people who identify with "I Live In a Sexless Marriage" on the Experience Project. But if recent surveys are correct, that doesn't even come close to the number of people who are living it but experiencing it privately.

The jobless rate may be around 9 percent, but the sexless marriage rate is perhaps a much more dire situation -- as many as 20 million married Americans aren't getting it on with any regularity.

Most unhappy are middle-aged men. Almost half say they aren't getting as much sex as they'd like, according to an AP/LifeGoesStrong.com poll. And while 61 percent of men aged 45 to 55 say a good sex life is a critical part of a healthy relationship, just 47 percent of women in the same age group agree. That's a big gap, but not necessarily surprising considering about 80 percent of columnist Dear Abby's female readers once told her that they'd much prefer to have a meaningful conversation with their partner than a good romp.

And it's not just a U.S. phenomenon-- things aren't too great Down Under, either.

A recent survey of about 9,000 Australians, of whom 73 percent were married, finds similar numbers -- 54 percent of men and 42 percent of women are unhappy with how often they're having sex. The men overwhelmingly wanted more action, while a third of the women said they were getting more than they wanted, thank you very much.

Clearly, there's a problem in the marital bed.

But can that lead to divorce?

Yes, according to Denise A. Donnelly, an associate professor of sociology at Georgia State University, who has studied sexless marriage. "People in sexless marriages report that they are more likely to have considered divorce, and that they are less happy in their marriages," Donnelly told the New York Times in 2008, noting that 15 percent of married couples hadn't gotten it on with their spouse in the prior six months to one year.

Of course, that doesn't mean they haven't had sex with someone else.

No one's quite clear on what makes a marriage "sexless" anyway. Some would say it's sexless if you're having sex 10 times a year or less. Others, like Dean Mason, who runs FixYourSexlessMarriage.com, says it comes down to defining what your personal threshold is. If you want it daily and you're getting it weekly, that falls under the "sexless" banner, too. And evidently, married folks are actually getting it on a little more than once a week -- 58 times a year -- according to the General Social Survey, which has tracked the social behaviors of Americans since 1972.

So who's saying, "Not tonight, dear, I have a headache!"? Not who you might think.

A lot more men are often not in the mood, says Susan Yager-Berkowitz and Bob Berkowitz, the husband-wife team who surveyed 4,000 people for their book He's Just Not Up for It Anymore. While there may be lots of research on treating sexual dysfunction, which affects about 31 percent of men, there hasn't been much research on men who have lost their sexual desire, the authors say.

And it's not something men are likely to bring up in the locker room either, says marriage counselor Michele Weiner Davis. "To be disinterested in sex is to feel less than a man," she writes in The Sex-Starved Marriage. "Just thinking about low libido -- let alone talking about it -- strikes terror in men because it threatens the very foundation upon which their feelings of self-worth are based. No wonder they're tight-lipped."

Unless they're talking about their wife's lack of interest in sex, of course.

Guys tend to mention that a lot.

 

Weight, children, work, porn, stress, unemployment, depression, power struggles, menopause, infidelity, nagging -- there are any number of reasons why couples stop having sex for weeks or months at a time. But the underlying issue may be anger -- more than 40 percent of the men surveyed by the Berkowitzes said that they're mad at their wives. Wives, of course, are just as angry; in a survey of more than 1,000 moms in Parenting magazine, "Mad at Dad," 46 percent said they get mad at their significant other once a week or more (54 percent if they have babies in the house),

and 1 in 10 say their anger is "deep and long-lasting."

No amount of Viagra is going to take care of that!

And then there are those who say, who needs sex to be happily coupled?

59 percent of men and 69 percent of women ages 56 to 65 believe that couples can have a strong relationship without sexual activity, according to the AP/LifeGoesStrong.com poll.

Really?

I'm not so sure about that,

unless there's a real medical issue preventing a couple from intercourse.

But, even if that's so, there are many reasons why going sexless isn't healthy -- mentally, emotionally and physically. "The fountain of youth can be found between the sheets," says Dr. Mark Anderson, coauthor with Dr. Walter Gaman and Judith Gaman of Stay Young: 10 Proven Steps to Ultimate Health. "Frequent intercourse causes the brain to release human growth hormone, which helps maintain youth."

It also relieves stress, boosts the immune and cardiovascular systems, burns calories, reduces the risk of prostate cancer, and a lot of other good things.

Plus, it's fun!

So here are some fun and different activities to ignite that spark again.

Rather than sitting at home watching sports, set the DVR and take to some fun sports-inspired activities for couples. Not only can you get your daily sports fix, but you can engage your partner and find fun new things to do together. Your favorite teams can wait until you get home.

Jog outside together

The fall season is the perfect time for outdoor jogging for several reasons. The weather is still warm enough that you don't have to bundle up in a coat but cool enough to feel refreshing. If you find yourselves near a park, you'll be able to see the beautiful fall colors as the leaves change around you. Lastly, and probably the best reason to go as a couple, jogging is a great warm-up for other activities that you might want to do when you get back. *wink wink*

 

Tailgate a game

Even for your partner does not watch football, who can resist a great tailgate party? It's a great introduction to the game and excitement is sure to spread even to someone who knows nothing about the sport. After all, it would definitely be easier to carve out your Sundays to watch the game if you're going to do it together.

 

Take a dance class

Dance may not fall into the same category as traditional team sports, but it's definitely a great excuse to share your intimacy in new ways.If your'e a fan of 'Dancing with the Stars', watching them makes you think, if they can try and do this, so can I! Learn something sexy like the tango or salsa and keep the beat by moving along with your partner's rhythm. There's no better way to set a romantic mood than to hold your bodies close in dance.

 

Wrestle in the bedroom

Be a little mischievous with your sportiness and take it into the bedroom. Playfully wrestle and make up from your "fight" passionately between the sheets. The adrenaline will create a heightened experience for both of you.

Now that you've started that fire again...

perhaps you need just something a little bit different in the bedroom.

A good start would be a special lubricant!

For instance, Wet Together!

His is a water based and it warms. Hers is a silicone based and tingles. She applies his to him. He applies hers to her. The intimate act of touching makes the connection with two exciting sensations.

When combined, skin to skin, both unique Wet Together formulas provide longer lasting, silky smooth lubrication and sensation, since one is a silicone and the other a water they can't dry out like other 'couples' lubricants. They stay around longer for your entire session. Use as needed to supplement natural moisture and gently enhance pleasure. Reapply as desired. Easily washes away with mild soap and warm water. Will not harm latex.

We hope everyone has a safe & sexy weekend!!!