Put your Petal to the Metal!

A lot of people have metal in them already, 

a brace in one's leg, a hip,
maybe even a metal plate in the head! 

Now let's talk about the metal that gives 

you oh so much PLEASURE!

Metal toys may seem a bit too scary, 

but these are the same people that were scared about glass! 

Now if you LOVE glass toys, then why not metal?!?

Now let's remind you that you've come this far 

to have an open mind, 

let's keep you going in that right direction!

Metal still has all the benefits of glass.

It's non-porous,
ANY kind of lubricant can be used on them,
whether it's a thick & silky silicone based lubricant
or a thin & slippery water based lubricant.
One of the great things about
both glass and metal
 that differed from any other toy,
temperature adjustable!

Want a warm to mildly hot toy?
Slip it in a large microwavable bowl,
drench a smaller size towel in water,
wrap the towel around your favorite glass or metal toy,
place it in the bowl
and microwave to your desired temperature.
This should take no longer than 1 min,
depending on your microwaves capability.
Place your wrist over the hot towel,
if it feels too hot, let it stand and
cool down a little while.

Want a nicely chilled toy on those HOT summer nights?
Place in the fridge in some camoflage
(this varies with one's privacy i.e. kids,
parents, in-laws from out of town, roommates).
No access to a fridge?
Place in a container with water and ice.

Metal is great for people with allergies and 

who are very self aware of what they put inside themselves.

Cleaning these toys is a piece of cake!
Hot water and mild soap is all it takes.
Want it REALLY clean?
Invest in some great toy cleaner!

There is one HUGE difference between
glass and metal that makes metal stand on it's own.
Metal CAN NOT break!
Unlike glass,
these babies aren't going away
with a slight wack on one's night stand table.

These metal beauties can be used for anal,
vaginal, G-Spot, Prostate massage,
kegel excercises...
what ever you want...
and all of these can be done
with the same ONE metal toy.
No worries about bacteria growing,
not on metal.


So how about you embrace it like our
favorite fictional character
Anastasia Steele.

"My mouth is already open from panting.
I open wider, and he slides a large cool
metal object between my lips.
Shaped like an oversized baby's pacifier,
it has small grooves or carvings..."I'm going to put this inside you..."

Happy Friday!
;)

50 Shades of Kink...

With all the hype of the infamous book

that has made BDSM practically bust into the mainstream,

making even suburban/city mommys enticed by the BDSM scene or

having them thinking of adding a little something more in the bedroom.

How about we go over a little

BDSM (Bondage, Discipline/Dominance, Submission/Sadism, Masochism) 101.

 First, what is BDSM all about?

BDSM is not a slavery aspect...it's a self conscious choice and a consensual agreement between adults.

BDSM plays with your other senses and is not solely devoted to sex.

It plays with you spiritually, mentally, physically and exploring all sorts of new sensations.

It allows you to explore your fantasies and go beyond role playing.

To solely get your BDSM 'Tips' & 'Education' from porno movies, is a bad idea...

Pornos with BDSM is made for 'Entertainment'.

A BDSM relationship is more than that,
it's an allowance to have someone win your trust and vice versa.

So, you want to simply dip your toe in the pond of BDSM... 

A great starter for beginners to such activities...

a blindfold...

having a blindfold on, makes the simplest touch have a completely different feeling.

Not knowing what's coming or where, makes your nerve endings have a shock of feelings.

Adding a restraint...

whether you choose handcuffs...

Bondage tape...

or

Rope.

Allowing yourself to be restrained is a way of showing your partner,

that you trust,

that you give up the will to move,

and are allowing your partner to have their way with you.

Perhaps a bit of  role playing,

for someone being bad...

and maybe needing a spanking.

Whether you choose to use your hand or with a softer rope whip, for instance a

Silk Rope Whip

This a an ideal starter for it's softer appeal.

Instead of a leather one(which are a great classic to the whip family),

a silk rope whip is less intimidating and once you feel this soft whip you'll want two

(seriously, it's very soft!)

Which ever little piece of kink you choose...

remember to have fun responsibly and with consent!

Searching for the great G-Spot

Yes, it's existence has been quite a debate. 

Even without the exact coordinates, 

nearly all women still have areas that they may find particularly stimulating. 

 With this in mind, medical experts say, 

the location of any such G-spot is likely as diverse as their beholders.

  We hope that the large group of women who love sex, 

would not change the ways that they have found to enjoy themselves 

and instead become fixated on making certain to stimulate their G-spot to orgasm every time.

Just relax and have fun!

Whether you have found yours or haven't,

if you're a believer or not...

exploring for a treasure isn't a bad thing right?!?

Here are some products, positions, and tips to help, and to enhance, your exploring!

Products

Shunga Rain of Love G-Spot Arousal Cream

This lovely female formula from Shunga targets the G-spot, increasing blood circulation to your intimate areas for an intense erotic experience.

Included with this exotic cream is a booklet detailing the discovery of your G-spot, a variety of exciting sexual positions, and the proper use of the Rain of Love cream.

Spot On G-Spot Stimulating Gel for Women

this odorless and tasteless gel is making it's way through the grapevine as a fabulous

G-spot stimulator. Just a pea-size amount of this G-Spot stimulating gel

goes to work in moments to excite and arouse your G-Spot.

Toys 

Glass is a favorite of ours, how can you beat a non-pourous and a super easy to clean toy!

Guess what? You can't!

We LOVE the Pink Bent G Dream!

It's pretty and funtional...

This pretty pink G-Spot locator design makes the most of your experience.

It offers the perfect G-Spot location and stimulation; you will be very pleased time and time again.

Note to self...some women prefer a hard surface to be able to reach orgasm.

Next is Doc Johnson's Rock Star Stevie Vibe!

It resembles, a very much more expensive, Lelo's Gigi vibe.

With Doc Johnson making toy's since the 70's,

there's no reason not to trust them to make a sexy toy right, and they have! 

The Stevie Vibe is sleek, powerful and at a fraction of the cost of the Lelo's Gigi, we'll take 2!

Positions 

Doggy Style

Get down on all fours with your man kneeling behind you and have him plunge inside you, grabbing your rear for balance. A little firm, well-placed stroking of your G-spot can open up a whole new orgasmic world. If he’s the exploring kind, encourage him to thrust far enough inside you so that his testicles hit your body.

The Wanton Wheelbarrow

Start by standing and facing a bed or a chair. 

Bend over until your head and arms are resting on its surface. 

Have your man stand behind you and grab one of your ankles. 

Make sure to keep your knee slightly bent 

as you shift your weight to the leg that's still on the ground. 

Lifting your foot to rest near his hip, he should enter you from behind.

In closing, if after ALL this useful info and still no deep G-spot fireworks...

there's no need to fret my pet!

Simply have fun with the exploring and the 'getting-to-know' your body better.

Just worrying and ONLY focusing on finding the G-spot

may be detrimental and damaging to your sexual self-esteem.

It may also discourage those who cannot find it on you.

*On a side note*

Women with an low embarrassment meter, should find out how they react to G-spot stimulation in private, before sharing it with a partner for the first time, since stimulation can elicit strong emotion, anything from laughing, crying and/or (whoa!) squirting.

Blow His Mind!

If there’s one skill that every man would like a woman to have, that is none other than knowing
how to give a B.J., giving head, or a blow job.
The old saying 'you have to give to recieve' doesn't fall far from this advice!

One of the most common mistakes that women make is thinking
that all the work should be done by the man in the relationship.

However, if you want to have a great sex life,
you should do your part and learn about the techniques
in bed that will give him the utmost sexual pleasure.

So what exactly does it take to give a man great head?

Below is a crash course on how to give a man great head,
which will lead him to have an orgasm that he is not bound to forget anytime soon.
So great, that he will want to pay you back again and again and again!

Step 1: Be In A Comfortable Position

Just like penetrative sex,
there are a multitude of positions that you can try while learning how to give a B.J. to your guy.
You can either have him lie down in bed, have him standing up or make him sit on a comfortable couch.

Let’s say that you choose the last position.
What you can do here is kneel in between his legs
so that you can gain easy access to all ‘the goods’.

Although it only takes a few minutes of direct stimulation for a man to have an orgasm especially when you’re using your mouth, you would not want to have things over too soon – so make sure that you’re in a comfortable position while going down on him.

Step 2: Start Giving Him Head By Slowly Licking Him

It doesn’t matter if he’s already hard or not.
The best way to start giving him head is by using your tongue in one long,
slow licking motion from the base of his penis all the way up.

Do this on as many sides of his penis as you can,
then when you feel that he’s all worked up,
that is the time that you can slowly take him into your mouth.

Step 3: Use Your Tongue, Mouth & Fingers

As you slowly take his penis deep into your mouth, make sure that you don’t ignore the rest of his package. Use your tongue, mouth and fingers to stimulate the rest of his shaft.  Use an up and down motion with your fingers to cover the part of the shaft which you cannot take into your mouth. Making an up & down motion with your mouth and hands, is just the beginning,
but don't forget to suck as well.
Creating a suction around his penis encourages more blood flow to his member and more sensation.

Showing him that you are really into it will be a huge turn on, so stare into his eyes and watch his reaction.  Finally, marvel in your sexual prowess at your being able to give him the ultimate pleasure in bed – and use every tool at your disposal to give him a mind-blowing orgasm that he’s not bound to forget anytime soon!

 

Tips

*Don’t forget to gently tug at, lick or even place one of his balls into your mouth
(if you know that he likes it or don't know yet, try it!)
You want to make giving head an extra pleasurable experience and unforgettable for him.

* A great tasty lubricant

is great incentive for the giver of the BJ, besides seeing your guy get off.

*Some guys may even like a pinky or fore finger graze his anal opening or to even be inserted.
(be sure to have neat, short nails.)
If not your finger, a slender vibrator or prostate massager

* Apply slight pressure applied in 'taint' or perineum area
(the area of skin between the scrotum and anal opening) with your thumb.
Lightly grazing with your finger tips will also give a tingle (close to a tickling) sensation.

*For the giver of this oral pleasure,
the gag reflex on some people may be more sensitive than others when attempting some deep throat action. An interesting trick for when you feel the gag reflex coming is to simply swallow.
This takes practice to know not to panic and to time it when
you know are going to place his penis deeper in your mouth.
Relax, breathe through your nose and if all else fails a quick fix is a throat numbing spray

 or gel/balm

 

Warnings

The worst way to receive a blowjob is for the receiver to

actually feel your teeth on him – so keep your teeth covered with your lips.

The best way to prevent accidentally grazing his penis with your teeth is by relaxing your jaw.

Spring has Sprung!

Spring time is upon us.

Spring usually symbolizes regrowth, awakening, fertility and generation.

We're here to help you awaken your sexual lust from it's hibernation...

whether you're in a sexual funk, in a rut or just plain bored, 

we have some tips!

Bring Treats into the Bedroom...

What says 'Spring' like fruit?!?

Some delectable strawberries, sweet cherries, and juicy orange slices.

Take turns eating them directly from each other's mouth.       

 You can even take turns eating treats off each other's bodies.


Sensual Massage

A massage is a great way to build intimacy & closeness between you and your partner.

Start out with a warm enough room so your partner can be nude.

Now you don't have to be a professional and don't try too hard to be.

Massage oil and free roaming hands, starting from the neck/back down to legs/feet.

One of our favorite massage oils is Shunga Organica .

It has a light crisp green tea scent.

Add a New Toy to Your Lineup

 
One of our favorites fresh out from Cal Exotic is the Silly Diver!

The ever popular Diving Dolphin® is now a premium Silicone dual massager

It has a soft, smooth, and unscented Silicone shaft and clitoral dolphin.

 With 7 incredible functions of vibration, pulsation, and escalation,

3 speeds of shaft rotation with reverse rotation function,

and 3 rows of non-jamming pleasure beads!

Not to mention a easy-to-use control panel with illuminated LED lights

with a 4 second power off button.

This Silly Diver is a sure winner in our book!

A Different Lubricant

With Spring also come allergies.

As we grow older we may develop an allergy that we didn't have before.

This is applied to products that we can no longer use, such as a particular lubricant.

Luckily, Organic Lubricant's are become more available and a little bit more affordable

Made with Sea Kelp and Guava Bark, Defense Lubricant is a premium paraben-free, glycerin-free water based formula that was designed to work with the body and not disrupt healthy microflora. Made with Certified Organic Extracts, Defense blends naturally with a woman’s natural fluids and is latex condom friendly and safe to use with any toy.

Have fun exploring your many options that Spring may bring you.