Now, whether you have heard of the famous
Ben Wa Balls from the
latest book
or you're just looking into improving your sexual health,
(Good for YOU, by the way!)
there is no doubt that THE Ben Wa Balls,
are not new to the scene!
History of Ben Wa Balls
Ben Wa Balls are known to have been used as far back as 500 A.D. all over Asia.
The balls were made of metal or ivory,
and were at first inserted into the female
in order to increase pleasure for the male during intercourse.
It didn't take Asian women long to figure out that the
Ben Wa Balls could be used in order to induce an orgasm with the art of teasing.
Women in ancient Asia, from Thailand to China to Japan,
used the subtle clanking vibrations to achieve the big O or for foreplay.
The balls were soon attached by a silk thread or chain
so that removal from the vagina became easier.
One of the first "western" encounters of Ben Wa Balls was made by
Ralph Fitch, a famous English traveler, who was one of the firsts to explore
About 12 years after Ralph Fitch encountered Ben Wa Balls,
in the 16th Century, an Italian exploring Thailand
discovered men using Ben Wa Balls to lengthen their penis'.
Do we suggest Ben Wa Balls for this use?
Absolutely not, it sounds excruciatingly painful!
But there you have it,
Ben Wa Balls have an incredible history,
and are possibly, not only the world´s first vibrator,
but also the first organ enlarger!
What Exactly Are Ben Wa Balls?
Ben Wa Balls are small metal, glass or plastic balls that are hollow on the inside.
An even smaller ball is often times placed inside,
the rolling of the interior ball creates a small continuous vibration.
The subtle continuous vibration has been known to bring on an orgasm.
Some women will feel nothing at all.
This is totally dependent on the sensitivity of an individuals Vagina.
What Are Kegel Exercises?
Kegel Exercises strengthen the P.C. muscle a.k.a.
As many of you know, as you grow older, you may have a tendency to leak urine
whenever you laugh, sneeze, and/or cough too loudly.
This is true for not only women, but also men.
Doing Kegel Exercises helps strengthen the pelvic floor,
meanwhile, producing a tigher vagina, and
ultimately, stopping unwanted urination.
If you don´t know where your P.C. muscle is,
it´s the one muscle between your Pelvic bone and your tail bone.
By strengthening your pelvic floor, both men and women are able to enjoy better intimacy.
How to Use Ben Wa Balls?
1. Use the restroom before placing the balls in the vagina.
2. With clean hands, Insert one ball at a time.
Putting lubrication on the balls will help them glide in.
(Women have said that inserting the balls is similar to inserting a tampon.)
If you’re not used to inserting tampons or if you’re having trouble,
you should lift one leg up.
If that doesn’t work, try inserting them while lying down
with your legs spread open as far as you can.
3. Once they are in, Squeeze your leg muscles together
and then your PC muscles together to hold the balls in.
The balls should push down a little bit inside your vagina,
and they will make your vagina feel “full”.
Much like tampons, you should eventually get used to the feeling.
4. Hold the balls inside for at least 15 - 20 minutes a day
to strengthen your PC muscles.
Work your way up to a time you feel comfortable.
It isn´t unusual to hold them for hours for a better workout.
5. If any balls slip out, wash them well with a very mild soap and water,
6. There are several ways to remove the balls including:
jump up and down, sneeze, cough,
sit and bear down as if you’re having a bowel movement,
or inserting lubricant to help them slide out, etc.
If you think you might have a hard time removing the balls,
then you may want to purchase Ben Wa Balls that are strung onto a retrieval cord.
Which are PERFECT for beginners!
In any case, it is NOT possible for the
Ben Wa Balls to disappear inside the body, from the vagina.
Keep in mind, when choosing your
Ben Wa Balls,
that if the
Ben Wa Balls are too heavy and small,
you may want to go to a larger size or even to plastic balls.
The larger the
Ben Wa Balls are,
the easier it is to hold them inside your Vagina.
Conversely, the smaller the Ben Wa Balls are,
the harder it will be to hold them.
Smaller
Ben Wa Balls are most highly recommended
for an experienced user only.
*A word of caution, many people forget about them long enough
to make a run to the dry cleaners, grocery store or run other errands.
You don't want the Ben Wa Balls to fall out during this time,
as that would be rather embarrassing!
So don´t forget to take them out if you´re going for a run,
going to the store, or going to do other errands.*
Overall Maintenance for Ben Wa Balls
Ben Wa Balls are easy to clean and because of they are generally smooth,
hard surface, they can be cleaned with soap and water.
However, some Ben Wa Balls have strings, some are not seamless,
some are textured or have other objects protruding from them.
In this case, it is strongly recommended that you use a
toy cleaner.
These toy cleaners cost anywhere from $10-$16 and can be used to clean toys for a few months.
Ben Wa Balls, compared to other toys,
are easy to maintain, clean, and use.
Overview of the Benefits of Ben Wa Balls
Ben Wa Balls, Ben Wah Balls, Wa Bah Balls,
Wah Ba Balls, Burmese bells, Benoît balls,
Duotone balls, Orgasm balls, Venus balls,
Geisha balls, Smart Balls...
We have heard many different names, but one thing is for sure,
they´re nothing short of miraculous!
For pleasure for yourself or both you and your partner.
For a strong pelvic floor and better health as you grow older.
For the simple joy of attempting something adventurous,
Ben Wa Balls are here,
they´re here to stay,
so give them a try.
