Friday, June 24, 2011

A Naughty Adult 'Operation'...

Do you remember playing Operation

 and trying not to touch the sides to not get zapped, now think of that naked guy laying there now...
what are those spots on him that you want him to get zapped!
Here's some helpful tips to let the zapping begin!
Think of the shaft of his penis as the outer curve of your breast...
 Imagine when he grazes your breast and it sends goosebumps all over and the electricity it sends all over your body,
* Light grazes that you give to his shaft can also be followed by a slight aggressive stroke.
* Teasingly lick the sides of his shaft like a popsicle. Making some eye contact while doing it is quite naughty, the visual alone should get him hot & heavy.
*Lie on top of your guy and place his penis in between your breasts, as you rub up and down when the penis come close to your mouth, give a lick. Breasts + feeling his penis between them = HOT DAMN!
*Your preference here...either take a drop of your favorite flavored lubricant or lick your palms, grip his penis with one hand over the other, and twist in opposite directions creating lots of feel good friction.
Think of his testicles like your nipples...
Your nipples get bigger & darker when you are turned on, so does his testicles. A woman's nipples enlarge because they are engorged with blood when she is aroused. A man's scrotal sac fills with blood and becomes more sensitive.
*As you kiss him, slide your hand down to his testicles and just cradle them, the warmth of your hand is a new sensation.
*Gently pull the skin away from his testicles with your fore finger & thumb. The skin is less sensitive then the testicles themselves, so start out lightly massaging the skin then apply a bit more pressure.
*Rub the flats of your nails, (hopefully you don't have hangnails and/or rough cuticles) not the edges of your nails, against his scrotum. The flat side of your nails are harder, smoother, and cooler than your fingertips.
*Take one testicle at a time in your mouth and gently suck. This is a whole different ball game from the palm of your hand.
*When you're on top of him and feel him getting closer to climax, reach around to his testicles and give a gentle tug. Pulling them away from his body causes the nerve endings to be exposed, thus making his orgasm more intense.
 Think of the base of his penis like your pubic mound...
When a guy takes a break from stroking your clitoris and rubs your pubic mound
(the round fleshy area just above your clitoris) is a treat.
The sensation in that area is caused by blood rushing there when you're turned on, but it's also because it stimulates your clitoral hood(the fold of your skin that surrounds and protects your clitoral glans). The base of his penis connects his shaft to his body, but it doesnt have as many nerve endings as the head of his penis, but because blood in that area is brought there when he's aroused, it's a super-erongenous zone. It can handle both gentle squeezes & rougher ones.
* Make a circle with your index finger & thumb, like an 'ok' sign, and place at the base of his penis while he's inside you. This a sort of cock-ring effect, keeping the blood where you want it and making him last longer.
*Firmly hold the bottom of his shaft in one hand and slowly push it toward the base (imagine you're pushing his penis into his body), then pull it back lightly. Since it's all connected, it'll shoot a tingly sensation from the base to the head of his penis and back.
Now try not to do a hard jerking motion, we don't want to break the guy!
*Make the tip of your tongue into a firm point, and trail it around the base. Since you usually focus on the top three-quarters of his package, he'll be surprised and aroused!
*With a flat, soft tongue, lick all the way around the base of his penis three or four times, and then take your mouth away from his penis. Pause , and repeat. The move will feel awesome, and teh waiting will excite him more.
*Post orgasm, massage the base of his penis lightly-use one fingertip, and move it in small circles. His balls and head and shaft are too sensitive to be touched right after he's climaxed, but he'll love gentle attention here.

Think of the head of his penis like your clitoris...
As you know the clitoris is jammed pack with nerve endings & so is teh tip of his penis, although his glans can take a bit more pressure than your clitoris-the nerves are just spread over a larger area-it's still very sensitive. With that said the areas need to be stimulated carefully. Caress with caution, start out with just the tip and then the entire head. If you spend too much time at the tip & are too rough too soon, he may become over stimulated, and that can be really painful for him. To keep that from happening, switch up your tactics. Don't stick with one for more than 10 seconds or so. Choose a few of these:
* Like it feels erotic when he toches you through your panties, so grope him through his pants or underwear by tracing the sides of his penis with your finger tips.
*Grip his shaft loosely with one hand, then open your mouth, hover right over the head of his penis, and breath slowly and heavily. The sexy heat will literally warm him up and send tingles from his tip to his base.
*Guide his penis into your mouth at an angle, so it hits the inside of your cheek. The skin is smooth and soft there, so it feels awesome against him.
Stay clear of any teeth, you wouldn't want any bites on your clitoris would you...OUCH!
*Cover the head and upper shaft of his penis with your mouth, and suckon the tip like you're slurping a shake through a straw, heavier-than-usual suction.
* When you're straddling him, stop and raise your hips so only his tip is still inside you. Squeeze your vagina like you're doing your Kegel excercises. He'll love the intense pleasure!

Think of his perineum like your G-spot...
It's a small spongy area located 2 inches up the front wall of your vagina that gives you one of those super-deep, way intense orgasms. A guy's perinium, the patch of skin between his anus and testicles, is a very similar producer of body-rocking inner pleasure. The perinium has nerves that run straight to a mans prostate, which is basically the male g-spot. It is packed with nerves that magnify his pleasure and is deep inside his body to touch directly, unless he's given you the green light for that.
* As you're stroking his shaft with one hand, reach down and massage his perinium with the pad of your thumb-roll it from one side to the other, almost like you're giving a fingerprint.
* Dart your tongue in and out like a snake, flicking it quickly against his perinium. Tha fast movements will get him super hyped.
* Use the knuckle of your pointer finger to press against it firmly as you give him oral. It's best to use this move if you're ready for him to finish, since the combo of oral and perinium contact is sure to speed things up.
* Press your lips together like you're about to plant one on him, then place them directly over his perinium and suck. The suction brings more blood to the area, encouraging it and making him shiver.
* When he's in missionary and about to finish, reach down and push the spot-just like you would a button-to make his finale even more explosive!

Have fun this weekend and try a trick or two...or more!

Thursday, June 16, 2011

Remember when...

Kissing was such a big experience when we were adolescents and teenagers. A kiss had so much more feeling tied to it, it was something new! 
Hopefully, with a great kisser, you felt an explosion, fireworks, sparks! You felt a lightness and like there was no one else, just the two of you.


This makes one wonder, 'When was your last great make-out session?'

Now as an adult, in a serious relationship, engaged, married, with kids, or none...while leading busy lives, we let the kissing fall to the waist side. We let life come in with all it's responsibilities and forgot the simple intimacy of kissing. Yes, now we don't have to worry about mom & dad walking in, and now it, almost always, leads to sex.
How about making that make out session a little longer with a few new tricks that you may have not tried before.

1. Make sure you have a fresh breath, something as simple as having water or iced tea, in place of a cup of coffee can make a tweak in your breath. There is always mints and chewing gum as well. If your partner isn't so fresh at the moment, have a mint in your mouth and pass it to your partner.

2. Put a Chapstick in your pocket, if you're prone to chapped lips, licking them will only make it worse.

3. First, start with flirting with your partner's lips in light, teasing, licking kisses. Lightly put the tip of your tongue into their mouth, quickly pulling it back out, then slides it in again like you're playing hide-and-seek with your partner in their mouth. Then tease their lips again and lightly suck each one. Then moves the tip of your tongue in circles just inside their lips.
4. Your hands can grace their face, gently graze their arms, the small of their back, let's save the groping til a little bit later, if you can hold out!
5. Now move the kissing else wear, their neck, for men & women, this is a big erogenous zone.
The small area of where the earlobe meets the neck, gently with the tip of your tongue, graze their earlobe, sucking on the earlobe, and continue kissing their neck.
5. If you've held out this long, then explore the rest of their erogenous zones, finger tips, arms, chest, navel and voilĂ ...you're on your way south! The inside of the thighs can be great, if they're not too ticklish.
This can be a perfect segued into performing oral on your partner.

Friday, June 10, 2011

Just in time for Father's Day...

How about for Father's Day, instead of a tie, #1 Dad mug or desk ornament...
you give him an extended male orgasm!

Besides giving him naughty talk and tingling foreplay, here are 5 moves to try out to send him over the edge...


1. Let him enter you, but stop him so that just the tip is in your vagina. Then squeeze your PC muscles(the ones that stop urine midflow) around the head several times before letting the rest of his penis inside.

2. Get in girl-on-top and rub your vulva against his pubic area-the spot just above his penis. That way, his penis is only moving slightly inside you instead of going all the way in and out, so he's getting less of that orgasm-inducing friction. It'll keep him in a pleasurable limbo (and feel great for you too!)

3. When changing positions, such as girl-on-top to doggie-style, move away from him to a new spot on the bed and touch yourself, so he gets a tantalizing show before he can enter you again.

4. As he's getting close, lightly tug his balls down-it can delay his orgasm. If you want to speed him up, cup his balls and push them up toward his penis.

5. Repeatedly press his perineum (the spot between hiss balls and his butt). Hold pressure there with your thumb, or rub it in circles with your fingers. It's like a start/stop button for his climax-touch him there to speed him up, then release to slow him back down.

That should be a nice & naughty surprise, as well as making this Father's Day one to remember!