50 Shades of Kink...

With all the hype of the infamous book

that has made BDSM practically bust into the mainstream,

making even suburban/city mommys enticed by the BDSM scene or

having them thinking of adding a little something more in the bedroom.

How about we go over a little

BDSM (Bondage, Discipline/Dominance, Submission/Sadism, Masochism) 101.

 First, what is BDSM all about?

BDSM is not a slavery aspect...it's a self conscious choice and a consensual agreement between adults.

BDSM plays with your other senses and is not solely devoted to sex.

It plays with you spiritually, mentally, physically and exploring all sorts of new sensations.

It allows you to explore your fantasies and go beyond role playing.

To solely get your BDSM 'Tips' & 'Education' from porno movies, is a bad idea...

Pornos with BDSM is made for 'Entertainment'.

A BDSM relationship is more than that,
it's an allowance to have someone win your trust and vice versa.

So, you want to simply dip your toe in the pond of BDSM... 

A great starter for beginners to such activities...

a blindfold...

having a blindfold on, makes the simplest touch have a completely different feeling.

Not knowing what's coming or where, makes your nerve endings have a shock of feelings.

Adding a restraint...

whether you choose handcuffs...

Bondage tape...

or

Rope.

Allowing yourself to be restrained is a way of showing your partner,

that you trust,

that you give up the will to move,

and are allowing your partner to have their way with you.

Perhaps a bit of  role playing,

for someone being bad...

and maybe needing a spanking.

Whether you choose to use your hand or with a softer rope whip, for instance a

Silk Rope Whip

This a an ideal starter for it's softer appeal.

Instead of a leather one(which are a great classic to the whip family),

a silk rope whip is less intimidating and once you feel this soft whip you'll want two

(seriously, it's very soft!)

Which ever little piece of kink you choose...

remember to have fun responsibly and with consent!

Searching for the great G-Spot

Yes, it's existence has been quite a debate. 

Even without the exact coordinates, 

nearly all women still have areas that they may find particularly stimulating. 

 With this in mind, medical experts say, 

the location of any such G-spot is likely as diverse as their beholders.

  We hope that the large group of women who love sex, 

would not change the ways that they have found to enjoy themselves 

and instead become fixated on making certain to stimulate their G-spot to orgasm every time.

Just relax and have fun!

Whether you have found yours or haven't,

if you're a believer or not...

exploring for a treasure isn't a bad thing right?!?

Here are some products, positions, and tips to help, and to enhance, your exploring!

Products

Shunga Rain of Love G-Spot Arousal Cream

This lovely female formula from Shunga targets the G-spot, increasing blood circulation to your intimate areas for an intense erotic experience.

Included with this exotic cream is a booklet detailing the discovery of your G-spot, a variety of exciting sexual positions, and the proper use of the Rain of Love cream.

Spot On G-Spot Stimulating Gel for Women

this odorless and tasteless gel is making it's way through the grapevine as a fabulous

G-spot stimulator. Just a pea-size amount of this G-Spot stimulating gel

goes to work in moments to excite and arouse your G-Spot.

Toys 

Glass is a favorite of ours, how can you beat a non-pourous and a super easy to clean toy!

Guess what? You can't!

We LOVE the Pink Bent G Dream!

It's pretty and funtional...

This pretty pink G-Spot locator design makes the most of your experience.

It offers the perfect G-Spot location and stimulation; you will be very pleased time and time again.

Note to self...some women prefer a hard surface to be able to reach orgasm.

Next is Doc Johnson's Rock Star Stevie Vibe!

It resembles, a very much more expensive, Lelo's Gigi vibe.

With Doc Johnson making toy's since the 70's,

there's no reason not to trust them to make a sexy toy right, and they have! 

The Stevie Vibe is sleek, powerful and at a fraction of the cost of the Lelo's Gigi, we'll take 2!

Positions 

Doggy Style

Get down on all fours with your man kneeling behind you and have him plunge inside you, grabbing your rear for balance. A little firm, well-placed stroking of your G-spot can open up a whole new orgasmic world. If he’s the exploring kind, encourage him to thrust far enough inside you so that his testicles hit your body.

The Wanton Wheelbarrow

Start by standing and facing a bed or a chair. 

Bend over until your head and arms are resting on its surface. 

Have your man stand behind you and grab one of your ankles. 

Make sure to keep your knee slightly bent 

as you shift your weight to the leg that's still on the ground. 

Lifting your foot to rest near his hip, he should enter you from behind.

In closing, if after ALL this useful info and still no deep G-spot fireworks...

there's no need to fret my pet!

Simply have fun with the exploring and the 'getting-to-know' your body better.

Just worrying and ONLY focusing on finding the G-spot

may be detrimental and damaging to your sexual self-esteem.

It may also discourage those who cannot find it on you.

*On a side note*

Women with an low embarrassment meter, should find out how they react to G-spot stimulation in private, before sharing it with a partner for the first time, since stimulation can elicit strong emotion, anything from laughing, crying and/or (whoa!) squirting.