how to give a B.J., giving head, or a blow job.
The old saying 'you have to give to recieve' doesn't fall far from this advice!
that all the work should be done by the man in the relationship.
However, if you want to have a great sex life,
you should do your part and learn about the techniques
in bed that will give him the utmost sexual pleasure.
So what exactly does it take to give a man great head?
you should do your part and learn about the techniques
in bed that will give him the utmost sexual pleasure.
So what exactly does it take to give a man great head?
Below is a crash course on how to give a man great head,
which will lead him to have an orgasm that he is not bound to forget anytime soon.
So great, that he will want to pay you back again and again and again!
which will lead him to have an orgasm that he is not bound to forget anytime soon.
So great, that he will want to pay you back again and again and again!
Step 1: Be In A Comfortable Position
Just like penetrative sex,
there are a multitude of positions that you can try while learning how to give a B.J. to your guy.
You can either have him lie down in bed, have him standing up or make him sit on a comfortable couch.
there are a multitude of positions that you can try while learning how to give a B.J. to your guy.
You can either have him lie down in bed, have him standing up or make him sit on a comfortable couch.
Let’s say that you choose the last position.
What you can do here is kneel in between his legs
so that you can gain easy access to all ‘the goods’.
Although it only takes a few minutes of direct stimulation for a man to have an orgasm especially when you’re using your mouth, you would not want to have things over too soon – so make sure that you’re in a comfortable position while going down on him.
What you can do here is kneel in between his legs
so that you can gain easy access to all ‘the goods’.
Although it only takes a few minutes of direct stimulation for a man to have an orgasm especially when you’re using your mouth, you would not want to have things over too soon – so make sure that you’re in a comfortable position while going down on him.
Step 2: Start Giving Him Head By Slowly Licking Him
It doesn’t matter if he’s already hard or not.
The best way to start giving him head is by using your tongue in one long,
slow licking motion from the base of his penis all the way up.
Do this on as many sides of his penis as you can,
then when you feel that he’s all worked up,
that is the time that you can slowly take him into your mouth.
The best way to start giving him head is by using your tongue in one long,
slow licking motion from the base of his penis all the way up.
then when you feel that he’s all worked up,
that is the time that you can slowly take him into your mouth.
Step 3: Use Your Tongue, Mouth & Fingers
As you slowly take his penis deep into your mouth, make sure that you don’t ignore the rest of his package. Use your tongue, mouth and fingers to stimulate the rest of his shaft. Use an up and down motion with your fingers to cover the part of the shaft which you cannot take into your mouth. Making an up & down motion with your mouth and hands, is just the beginning,
but don't forget to suck as well.
Creating a suction around his penis encourages more blood flow to his member and more sensation.
but don't forget to suck as well.
Creating a suction around his penis encourages more blood flow to his member and more sensation.
Showing him that you are really into it will be a huge turn on, so stare into his eyes and watch his reaction. Finally, marvel in your sexual prowess at your being able to give him the ultimate pleasure in bed – and use every tool at your disposal to give him a mind-blowing orgasm that he’s not bound to forget anytime soon!
Tips
*Don’t forget to gently tug at, lick or even place one of his balls into your mouth
(if you know that he likes it or don't know yet, try it!)
You want to make giving head an extra pleasurable experience and unforgettable for him.
(if you know that he likes it or don't know yet, try it!)
You want to make giving head an extra pleasurable experience and unforgettable for him.
* A great tasty lubricant
is great incentive for the giver of the BJ, besides seeing your guy get off.
*Some guys may even like a pinky or fore finger graze his anal opening or to even be inserted.
(be sure to have neat, short nails.)
If not your finger, a slender vibrator or prostate massager
(be sure to have neat, short nails.)
If not your finger, a slender vibrator or prostate massager
* Apply slight pressure applied in 'taint' or perineum area
(the area of skin between the scrotum and anal opening) with your thumb.
Lightly grazing with your finger tips will also give a tingle (close to a tickling) sensation.
*For the giver of this oral pleasure,
the gag reflex on some people may be more sensitive than others when attempting some deep throat action. An interesting trick for when you feel the gag reflex coming is to simply swallow.
This takes practice to know not to panic and to time it when
you know are going to place his penis deeper in your mouth.
Relax, breathe through your nose and if all else fails a quick fix is a throat numbing spray
or gel/balm
(the area of skin between the scrotum and anal opening) with your thumb.
Lightly grazing with your finger tips will also give a tingle (close to a tickling) sensation.
*For the giver of this oral pleasure,
the gag reflex on some people may be more sensitive than others when attempting some deep throat action. An interesting trick for when you feel the gag reflex coming is to simply swallow.
This takes practice to know not to panic and to time it when
you know are going to place his penis deeper in your mouth.
Relax, breathe through your nose and if all else fails a quick fix is a throat numbing spray
or gel/balm
Warnings
The worst way to receive a blowjob is for the receiver to
actually feel your teeth on him – so keep your teeth covered with your lips.
The best way to prevent accidentally grazing his penis with your teeth is by relaxing your jaw.
