Studio 21 Ltd: 50 Shades of Kink...

With all the hype of the infamous book

that has made BDSM practically bust into the mainstream,

making even suburban/city mommys enticed by the BDSM scene or

having them thinking of adding a little something more in the bedroom.

How about we go over a little

BDSM (Bondage, Discipline/Dominance, Submission/Sadism, Masochism) 101.

First, what is BDSM all about?

BDSM is not a slavery aspect...it's a self conscious choice and a consensual agreement between adults.

BDSM plays with your other senses and is not solely devoted to sex.

It plays with you spiritually, mentally, physically and exploring all sorts of new sensations.

It allows you to explore your fantasies and go beyond role playing.

To solely get your BDSM 'Tips' & 'Education' from porno movies, is a bad idea...

Pornos with BDSM is made for 'Entertainment'.

A BDSM relationship is more than that,
it's an allowance to have someone win your trust and vice versa.

So, you want to simply dip your toe in the pond of BDSM...

A great starter for beginners to such activities...

having a blindfold on, makes the simplest touch have a completely different feeling.

Not knowing what's coming or where, makes your nerve endings have a shock of feelings.

Adding a restraint...

whether you choose handcuffs...

Allowing yourself to be restrained is a way of showing your partner,

that you trust,

that you give up the will to move,

and are allowing your partner to have their way with you.

Perhaps a bit of role playing,

for someone being bad...

and maybe needing a spanking.

Whether you choose to use your hand or with a softer rope whip, for instance a

This a an ideal starter for it's softer appeal.

Instead of a leather one(which are a great classic to the whip family),

a silk rope whip is less intimidating and once you feel this soft whip you'll want two

(seriously, it's very soft!)

Which ever little piece of kink you choose...

remember to have fun responsibly and with consent!

Studio 21 Ltd